Thursday, June 10, 2010

men are from mars and women are from Venus ? Really ?

-Incomplete article ,being written ideas are all scattered .


So many books and so many psychologists all talking about the basic difference between men and the women,about why their logics differ so much from each other.Some tried to explain by way of attitude but none could define the reason to exact reason.

Etymological explanations won't yield as the difference has been older than the language, etymology is meek when it comes to defining difference but its very good in defining the facts in translatable terms.

In order to understand the difference and its implications one has to fully understand the purpose of why's of the them.

The major purpose in their structure (physically) is mainly adoption for the best possible route to attain and complete reproduction in their own way.
The man travels far and wide to spread his seeds, fights to control the food, women and hence not only rules while in his life time but also when he is not there.

A woman on the other hand, makes sure that she is around a strong male and hence also makes sure that when she is completing her part of reproductive cycle she is protected well along with the offspring.

He goes out and around to live the reproductive cycle and she makes sure that whenever her egg is fertilized she bears it properly and hence the selection of secure male, either money wise or physically, as and how the definition of security is fulfilled.

Possessiveness - avoiding insecurity.
Polygamy - Promoting chances of reproduction the ultimate physical purpose in every living being.
Territorial approach - maintain stability in life style, keep threat at bay for both family and self.